What are you: a builder-upper or a tearer-downer?

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Every day, and every encounter during each day, we have the opportunity to do good, or to do bad; to improve upon someone’s day, or ruin it for them.

Right now, or at the end of this day, think about the opportunities presented to you.  Now think of what you allowed to come forth.

Did you let a car get into your lane when a person was trying to get out of a business parking lot on a very busy street while you were in a hurry, and perhaps running late, and therefore had every reason not to stop for five seconds to allow that car into the flow of traffic?

Depending upon how you acted in that situation, the driver of that car felt this way:

Happy man

or the driver of that vehicle felt this way:

Sad manHe may even have felt this way: Swearing man

which would eventually make him feel this way:

Depressed man

How did you fare today?

  • Just for today, let go of anger.
  • Just for today, let go of worry.
  • Just for today, give thanks for your many blessings.
  • Just for today, do your work honestly.
  • Just for today, be kind to your neighbor and every living thing.

And do it again tomorrow and the next day.

8 thoughts on “What are you: a builder-upper or a tearer-downer?

    […] As I said in a previous post, I don’t want to be responsible for ruining someone’s day, or for making them angry or upset. That’s a responsibility I’m not going to place upon my shoulders. Instead, I’m gonna build up, not tear down. […]


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    Jill Weatherholt said:
    June 10, 2015 at 4:04 pm

    Great advice, Irene. I think I did pretty well today. While at the grocery story, I got a shopping cart from the stall and was ready to wipe the handle down with a germ wipe. An elderly lady entered and I asked her if she’d like the cart. You would have thought I offered her a million dollars. She lit up like a Christmas tree. When I offered to wipe it down for her, she said she was going to have to leave the store and come back in because she thought she was in the wrong place. Her reaction made my day. 🙂 She was so cute.


      boomer98053 responded:
      June 10, 2015 at 4:11 pm

      Yippee!! That’s exactly my point: even the smallest effort on our part can do wonders for someone’s day. I love your story.

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