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BREAKING GOOD NEWS!

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Goodness abounds, yes, it does.

We don’t hear or read about it enough, but trust me, hatred and evil have got nothing on goodness and kindness in our world.

It has been said that it is the horrific stories that make headlines, and quite frankly, that is true. Newspapers, magazines, television, and social media scramble to break news in their attempts to be the first to offer their take on ongoing incidents.

I am all for free journalism; without it, I would not be writing this 1,303rd post, so bring it on in all its raging color. But wouldn’t it be rewarding to have our day interrupted by breaking news that reports on the good and kind incidents that occur as well?

All right, I’ll do just that. Allow me to introduce you to this wonderful soul who has brought light into the darkness. This is Breaking News of the very best kind.

Sophie Andrews is a person who learned the hard way – one of the hardest – that the best way to help is simply to listenSophie was on death’s door – you have to listen to this 14-minute TED talk to learn of the details when a volunteer at the UK’s Samaritan helpline picked up the phone and changed 14-year-old Sophie’s life forever. Years later, Sophie gave back and paid it forward by starting a helpline for some of the most vulnerable people in society who are lonely and without access or means for socialization. Her Silver Line fields thousands of calls a day, making the lives of countless UK senior citizens brighter, fuller, and healthier each year.

Listening – a free resource that is oftentimes not employed when needed the most; listening that actively tunes into the person speaking.

If you are someone who sets resolutions or intentions for the upcoming new year, perhaps practicing the art of listening might be at the top of your 2026 list.

I know it is on mine.

Invisible People

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Our 91 year old neighbor, Betty, was taken to a local hospital by my friend/neighbor who lives across the street from her. Betty had medical symptoms that needed attention for a few nights in the hospital, but she is now back home.

Many of us nearby are very familiar with Betty who energetically walks her dog, Teddy, through the hilly streets of our very rural neighborhood outside of Seattle. This neighbor does not have the best hearing so oftentimes, when having a street side conversation with her, everyone can hear of which we speak several houses away.

However, that’s not important. What is important is that all of us younger neighbors – I’m a mere 69 yo – leaped into action to make sure she was getting the attention she needed at the hospital. Betty has no living family – one of the hazards of living a long life, I guess. She lives in a mother-in-law suite in a house owned by a lovely couple. They were on point with Betty at the hospital and my friend/neighbor who lives across the street from Betty talked to her by phone daily – passing along greetings from people such as myself, as well as from those who are emotionally connected with her.

During one such call, my neighbor told her that I and other neighbors had asked about her. Did that make Betty’s day? You bet it did. Just knowing people care does a body good. No one wants to be or feel invisible, and sometimes the elderly do fall into that unfortunate category. Betty is not invisible, she has actively engaged with her neighbors for many years, but there are those of a certain age and in other populations who do fall between the cracks. We did not let our elderly neighbor fade into invisibleness.

One thing that never changes. People. And how people love to connect with other people. We are built for community. The only way to tackle momentous challenges is together. From the novel LET IT SNOW, by Beth Moran