Caregiving and the Super Bowl
This is NOT an article about football. Anyone who has a loved one for whom they provide care – whether hands-on or peripheral – knows all too well how unpredictable life can be with that 24/7 responsibility. We’d all like to think that special occasions and events are immune from medical emergencies and other disasters, but all too often that is not the case.
Welcome to the life of a caregiver.
I honestly didn’t think I had another football article in me but the unfortunate circumstances in my best friend’s life have proven otherwise. To say that I am a Seattle Seahawks fan is an understatement of the highest magnitude. My best friend is just as big a fan, if not bigger. (Hard to believe, but I’m well aware that I don’t own the franchise on Seahawks fanaticism.)
The two of us have talked about Super Bowl Sunday numerous times since Seattle won the NFC Championship. She and her husband DVR each Seahawks football game so they can replay all the super fantastic highlights, such as took place in that NFC Championship game. Well, it’s a good thing her DVR was already set up for Super Bowl XLIX because she and her husband will probably miss the game.
Her father-in-law – who lives in another state – has had some challenging health issues for the past couple years; this week those challenges put him in the ICU. My friend and her husband drove out of state to be with him and aren’t certain when they’ll return home. Chances are they’ll not be in a position to view the Super Bowl but that’s the last thing on their minds at this time.
You see this article isn’t about football, it’s about the commitment involved when caring for a loved one.
Whether the person being cared for has dementia or any number of debilitating illnesses, the care commitment is the same. The book, The 36-Hour Day, written by Nancy L. Mace, M.A., and Peter V. Rabins, M.D., M.P.H, is aptly named because a caregiver’s day oftentimes extends beyond the 24 hours given to the rest of us – or so it seems when you’re in the midst of it.
Caregiving never takes a holiday, and it certainly doesn’t give a damn about your team’s participation in the Super Bowl. If you are a caregiver, you are my hero. If you know someone who is a caregiver, please do something to make their life easier.
Please see the following articles that will benefit both the caregiver and those trying to find a way to help someone they know who is a caregiver:
- The tethered caregiver
- The silent cry of the caregiver
- A normal day, caregiving style
- Caregiving: grief, guilt, exhaustion and discrimination
4 thoughts on “Caregiving and the Super Bowl”
February 2, 2015 at 1:09 pm
[…] Mr. Gruen points out that there are events in our lives that can be changed, and there are those that can not. The Packers and the Seahawks can try again next year, but many people with monumental health challenges don’t have that option. Reality dictates that while my husband and I went through the sturm und drang of the last game of the 2014-2015 football season, there were others who were experiencing a true life or death situation. The last thing on their minds was a sports match in Glendale, Arizona. (See Caregiving and the Super Bowl) […]
February 1, 2015 at 3:42 pm
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Between the Pages: Caregiving and the Super Bowl
I sit here, watching the big game, and browsing through some of the other blogs that I follow, and found something that totally speaks to one of the reasons Istarted this site. I have to pay a big tribute to those special people who take care of someone they love, just for the sake of that love. They miss out on so much, and this is why we need to do our best to make their lives easier.
January 31, 2015 at 4:39 pm
Thank you for this, Irene. I will certainly read these articles. My father is the caregiver…he’s amazing.
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January 31, 2015 at 6:29 pm
The way I look at it, you can never be overly prepared. The more information provided, hopefully the better prepared the caregiver. Personally, of the almost 600 articles I’ve posted on my blog, those closest to my heart are those that help families sort through the editorial noise of health struggles so that they can land on what is truly valuable. If I can provide that value, I’ll die a happy woman.